In our society the term "making love" has been used by countless people to describe having sex. When people are "looking for love" they are typically looking for sex. When I was younger I thought the ultimate expression of love was to have sex with my girlfriend. Well here's a news flash. Sex does not equal love. You do not show someone how much you love them by having sex with them. No sir! You show someone how much you love them by being there for them, no matter what. By giving of your time, attention, and whatever else is required of you and asking nothing in return. That is love. The physical act of sex might in some cases be an expression of your love, but it is by no means an act of love. Men and women need to realize that without love and friendship there can be no relationship. If all you have is lust and sex, your screwed. Because when that fades, and it will, you won't have anything to fall back on. If, however, you built your relationship on friendship, trust, and compatibility, then you are on good ground. Don't fall victim to your passions. Know the difference between Love and Sex.