I'm a firm believer that on sites such as these one does not need to show off their bodies to get attention. If this is done, most of the time this is the only reason someone will rate you a 10 or talk with you. They only have one thing on their mind --- Sex!!! I'm not saying this is a bad thing. But if you cannot interest others without being almost nude then what's the point? Can they not look at you for your inner-self as well and intelligence? The mind over the body. Think about why they really flock to your profile.