Well, after my last blog was posted shit went bad fast...his kids refused to get into the car with him when he met his ex. Their mother has basically painted a picture for them that if they stay with her it's going to be Disneyworld. We have decided to let them stay with her. He doesn't want to force them to come home and they resent him for it, nor do we have thousands of dollars to hire an attorney right now. They are both so brainwashed that they'd pretty much tell a judge anything at this point. We're both heartbroken, but we'll let them realize a few months from now to come home when their lives there aren't the pretty picture their mother has painted.